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About 1 percent of the population are deliberately malicious, antisocial personalities out to manipulate and control people for their own gain without conscience; another 10 percent were subjected to others' antisocial behavior and picked up the bad habits; and then there are the rest of us, who can have moments of meanness when we're stressed, insecure or succumbing to any number of our baser human emotions. Often we do so unconsciously, to our Hermes Bag Beige

State the obvious. If, say, a co worker berates you during a meeting, point out the facts "You are Hermes Mini Evelyne Size

Get away. Exit the room, the conversation, even town if necessary. Calmly, efficiently, and without saying anything you'd regret.

One on one. If it's not important, let it go. If it is important, get them alone and start by saying something like "Maybe you didn't know Some mean people deliver their biggest sting in front of an audience, and alone they might be apologetic.

Though it's not the most enlightened strategy, sometimes all you want is to tell a creep off with a brilliant comeback which, inevitably, doesn't come to mind until hours later. It's been two weeks. Exactly how much longer does that pot need to 'soak'?")

See it for what it is. Rather than internalize the criticism or dwell on what you might have done to deserve the attack, recognize that the nasty person has personal issues. That's not to say a good friend can't point out a flaw that needs fixing, but when someone piles on five or six things that are wrong with you, take a step back and see what's really going on.

´╗┐How to deal with nasty people

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to bite and the destructive effects it can have on the well being of others goes a long way toward amending your own negativity.

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Diffuse with humor. If your mother in law becomes enraged about your skimpy outfit, agree with her to the Hermes Kelly Black 28 point of exaggeration "I know I'm such a slut!" and often everyone is laughing by the end.

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Don'ts: Don't taunt, name call or get physically violent. Also, never tell an invalidator he or she is wrong; it starts a war.

Tired of being the bigger person?

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Come again? Asking someone to repeat their nasty remark ("I'm sorry, what did you just call me?") forces them to own up to what they just said and many people, embarrassed, will water it down the second time around.

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Mirror. If someone accuses you of stealing or cheating and they are way off base, ask them if they are guilty of the same.

parents, kids, best friends. Carter calls it engaging in "invalidating" behavior.

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"We're all invalidators, even by silent invalidating," Carter said, referring to when we demean people by ignoring them.

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Silent confrontation. Rather than fire back or get into a row, you can confront without opening your mouth. Just maintain eye contact and give a calm smile that indicates you know what your tormentor is doing; eventually they'll feel so uncomfortable they'll stop or leave.

As for dealing with other difficult people, Carter has a few suggestions.

Get them on your side. Invalidators respond well to three things: affinity, acknowledgment and admiration. Repeat back what they have said to you so that they feel understood, and begin any argument with a compliment.

yelling at me" or "You are embarrassing me in front of everyone" and ask to talk about it later. You can always find truth in your feelings, such as "I feel put on the spot."

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